He saw that his wife was cheating on him, and when he checked the other recordings, shock followed!

One man wrote to a therapist and found out how he discovered that his wife had been unfaithful to him for months.

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-Last month, my wife caught kissing a neighbor on our security camera. Sometimes at night I heard noises and was worried that thieves wanted to value our property. But when I checked the footage from the camera, I discovered something worse – one of the guys wrote.

He saw his wife in the arms of a neighbor and it seemed to him as if someone had stabbed him in the heart. He decides to confront her, but instead of apologizing and asking for her forgiveness as he expected, she tells him that she is in love and wants to leave him.

– She said she was drunk the night she found out she was cheating on me, but she admitted that it wasn’t the first time they were together. It turns out it’s been going on for months. She accused me of having an affair, saying I was not the man she married and she no longer felt attractive or loved. I was confused, and I thought we were happy – continued.

They have been married for seven years, and together for ten years. He still loves her and doesn’t know what to do. He feels lost, can neither eat nor sleep. He doesn’t know how to deal or who to talk to, so he asked for advice from an expert

Accusing you of cheating is a way to distract yourself from your guilt. This is not your fault. Rely on your family and friends for support. A relationship requires effort from both partners, and if she was very unhappy, she should have spoken to you honestly. Try talking to her and ask her if there is a way to salvage the relationship by working together. But if she insists that she wants to leave you, there is little you can do to change her mind – Deeder replied.